The When Someone Asks For A Picture Badge Challenge
8 questions from the 4 lessons in this badge. You need every one right, and you can try as many times as you like.
Step 1 of 8
1Decide
Someone you have chatted with for three weeks sends a picture of themselves first and says 'your turn'. What is this?
Right. Going first is a move, not a debt. You do not owe anyone a picture because they sent one, and the picture they sent may not even be of them.
It is built to feel like fairness, or a test. Both of those make you feel you owe something. You owe nothing. Someone sending a picture first is one of the six openings, not an exception to them.
Pick the right one to carry on.
2Find them
Which of these are the ask, in disguise?
Tap the ones that count.
Find all 5.
3Decide
They say: 'you have ten minutes'. What is the first thing you actually do?
Right. Ten minutes is a number they made up. The screenshot turns their threat into evidence, and putting the phone down stops the clock they are trying to run on you.
The first move is the boring one. Replying keeps the conversation alive, which is what they want. Deleting throws away the proof that would get them caught. Screenshot, then hands off the phone.
Pick the right one to carry on.
4Find them
In the first minute, which of these are the right moves?
Tap the ones that count.
Find all 4.
5Decide
You have told your mum. She is upset. What does her being upset mean?
Right. Upset is what caring looks like in the first minute. Give it ten. Most parents move from shocked to sorting it out faster than you would expect.
Parents have a first face and a second face. The first one is fear, and it can look a lot like anger. It is not about you; it is about what somebody did to you. Stay in the room for the second face.
Pick the right one to carry on.
6Find them
Which of these are true?
Tap the ones that count.
Find all 3.
7Decide
They say: 'pay 50 and I delete it, promise'. What do you know about that promise?
Right. The first amount is small on purpose. It is not a price; it is a question, and answering yes costs you the next one. Nobody who has paid has been left alone afterwards.
The number is small so that paying looks like the easy way out. It is not a price, it is a test, and paying tells them the answer. Ignoring is closer, but ignoring alone does not stop them either. Reporting does.
Pick the right one to carry on.
8Find them
Which of these make it worse?
Tap the ones that count.
Find all 4.
Badge earned: When Someone Asks For A Picture.
Every question right. Show a parent this screen tonight, and tell them one thing from this badge you did not know before.
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