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House Rules — your signed agreement

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Lesson 4 of 6 · Step 17 of 43 in the course

Watch, then decide. The next step only opens when you have it right.

Step 1 of 2

Step 1 of 2

The one thing you cannot do on your own

  • These twelve questions come from the SOS 4 Kids Home Alone manual.
  • You fill them in with a parent, you both sign it, and it goes on the fridge.
  • It is not a test. It is the two of you writing down what you have already agreed.
  • So that nobody has to remember it under pressure.

Watch, then answer this

Why does a parent have to sign it too?

Step 2 of 2

“I am not allowed” is easier when it is written down

  • When you say “I am not allowed”, this is the thing that makes it true.
  • It is much easier to hold a line somebody else wrote down with you.
  • Check it again in six months. What a nine-year-old is allowed to do changes.

Watch, then answer this

A friend is at the door and the agreement says no visitors. What does the paper give you?

That is this lesson.

You watched it, you made the call yourself, and you got it right. That is the whole lesson — nothing here was read to pass.

House Rules — our signed agreement

Answer these together. Where you disagree, that is the useful bit — talk about it now rather than on the day. Press the button and print what comes out.

House Rules — our signed agreement — SOS 4 Kids

Print it, both sign it, and put it on the fridge. Read it again at the start of every school year, because what a nine-year-old is allowed to do is not what an eleven-year-old is allowed to do.

Child
Parent or guardian
Date

Now do it

Off the screen, before you leave this page

Watching is not the same as being able to do it. Stand up and work through these. Nothing here is marked and nothing is sent anywhere — the ticks are yours.

Accessibility

Read what happens in each clip instead

Step 1 — Twelve questions, together. A parent and a ten-year-old at the kitchen table working down a printed sheet together, talking, both writing. Then both signing at the bottom, and the sheet going up on the fridge. The signing is the shot.

Step 2 — On the fridge. A friend at the door asking to come in. The child glances at the signed sheet on the fridge, then back, and says no. The paper does the work; the child does not have to argue.

Every film on this page is narrated and carries a caption track, supplied as a sidecar and never burned into the picture.

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